Archive for July, 2008
Cindy: Dog on the Blog
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After the demise of my parents other dog (Pippa) my parents decided that they wanted to get another dog, which to those who know my parents is no great surprise. Walking the dog is a habit they have clearly found difficult to break, and lets face it the exercise is good for them.
I found the old dog rather irritating because it smelt bad, and didn’t behave itself. This one is a world way from that, and it has perfect doggie manners. Cindy is a seven month old bitch, which appears to be a German Shepherd crossed with a Collie. She is very calm and relaxed even around children, and doesn’t have a problem being hugged and prodded by them.
Mum and dad got her from the RSPCA in Chobham, and she took a bit of finding. We looked at Battersea dogs home with them one weekend and most of the dogs there were Staffordshire Bull Terriers. What they found in their search is that no dog on the planet is good with kids, all the rescue centres they visited advised that the dogs were not suitable for children. I suggest this is probably to avoid any liability should a child be bitten by a dog after it is homed with children.
However the new dog is pleasant and agreeable both in terms of its odour and temperament, so I think it will fit in quite nicely.
BBC NEWS | ‘No decision’ on giant database
Posted by: | CommentsOur government seem to be toying with the idea of creating a huge database which contains records of all my phone, and email records. I strongly suspect this has much to do with the “War on terror”, and quite honestly is starting to sound like a familiar story. Except of course that Hitler, used communists to stir up the masses.
Even if the government does pursue this route I strongly suspect that it will be challenged because it would fall into conflict with the right to privacy. My first question as a law abiding citizen is what exactly does the government think it’s going to do with my data? Will it go looking to see if I’ve dialled a sex line, or perhaps if I’ve emailed a loved one about something going on at work?
I also question how useful all this mass of data will be, due to the fact we now have so much CCTV everywhere that when a crime is committed it takes police weeks if not months to search through all of it. In some places the CCTV even records your conversations.
Personally I do not trust this government at all with any of my personal data. If they can lose secret military data so easily (as we found out this week), then I don’t believe that they will use my data with care and respect. In fact this government acts with great arrogance, assuming that my personal data is their property. What arrogant presumption on the part of these people, how dare they assume my data is a commodity that they can use and abuse as they see fit.
I can see why they’ve taken a step back to think about this, because this is a step too far, having all my phone calls monitored and emails recorded. I didn’t like it when the RIP (Regulation of Investigatory Powers Act 2000) legislation was introduced, giving enormous powers to agencies to get my data from ISP’s and phone companies.
This is a clear harassment of the majority and an attack on personal liberty and privacy. So if this database comes into effect, all I can say is the terrorists have won. They’ve won because we’ll be living in a society where nobody trusts anyone, and the government feels it necessary to monitor the activities of all its citizens.
Does this sound the Great Britain we can be proud of?
Like Father, Like Son
Posted by: | CommentsI was having a lovely chat around the dinner table, and talking to Michael about his school report. I as got to the end there was a whole section on RE, and the teacher had commented about how he doesn’t talk about his “Spiritual beliefs”. So I asked him what he believes and he says he doesn’t believe in God or Gods, any of them. He believes that when we die we cease to exist. This is quite an interesting insight into the mind of a 9 year old, because he expresses himself so articulately and clearly about his reasons.
We have never told our children what they should believe and we’ve always told them about the different religions of the world. We’ve never hidden the truth of our own beliefs from our kids, because we’ve taught them tolerance and how to think and reason for themselves.
One interesting fact about RE classes at school, is that they don’t ever tell you it’s ok to have a non-theistic belief, or philosophy. I have never been against the idea of comparative RE in schools, but I found it fascinating that kids are studying, Christianity, Judaism, and Islam but they don’t get any exposure to other views. Michael had never heard the term agnostic or atheist until I explained them this evening. We know that RE isn’t part of the national curriculum and local SACRE’s (Standing Advisory Council on Religious Education) decide what the content of the classes should be. Usually these are headed up by a Church of England minister, and some representation from other religious groups. Unsurprisingly Humanists rarely get a look in on these councils.
So I have given my son the language of humanism, and explained what it means to be atheist, agnostic and what a Humanist is. At the moment he seems to identify with the idea of atheism, but he could change his views as he grows older. If he’s anything like me he might spend time looking the different religions and just end up finding out that what he knew all long, and that he’s a Humanist. However this is for him to decide, because unlike a religious perspective I do not believe in telling my children what they are.
He’s made several significant choices in his young life about what he believes, first the not believing in God, then choosing not to attend religious worship at school, and now the assertion that he’s an atheist.
I don’t imagine he understands how difficult it can be, particularly in as he’s living in a time where there as resurgence in religiosity. People of religion often make snap judgements that because you don’t believe that you have no morals, or you don’t deserve to be treated equally, or that you want to ban religion.
Let’s hope the world advances during his lifetime and the liberal voice of religion takes hold so he doesn’t have to go through the same intolerance that I find on a scarily regular basis.
Berkshire Humanists BBQ
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Yesterday I took the family to the annual BBQ for the Berkshire Humanists. The weather stayed fine, and there were quite a few people who came along. It was amazing to see all the kids playing together even though they varied quite a bit in age.
I got to meet some new people and make some new friends, which was exactly what I’d hoped. Julie was keeping quiet during a conversation I had with a “Bright“, about superstition. However we humanists like to be inclusive and Julie was made to feel very welcome amongst us.
The food was great and everyone brought plenty of food to eat. Its not that often we get that many of the group together in one place, so it seems my arguments about being more of a social group were quite correct. Offer up some food and drink and they all come in droves.
There was a fair bit of discussion around the BHA’s AGM which took place on the previous day, but it was all very informal chit-chat. A few of the other parents there also talked through some of the issues like faith schools, worship in schools, and the Scouts discrimination against humanists.
One of the group brought along a really great bubble set which made huge bubbles, that floated around the garden. The kids thought this was fab and had great fun chasing them around the garden.
I am looking forward to the Annual dinner now!
BHA Annual General Meeting
Posted by: | CommentsYesterday I attended the Annual General Meeting of the British Humanist Association, a charitable organisation which promotes the interests of Humanism. As a member of the BHA I have to be honest, I was expecting a very dry meeting with a lot of old people reading in a monotone way the activities of the association for the last year, and how wrong I was.
To start with I registered for the AGM, and wandered around looking at some of the leaflets and re-looking at the annual accounts. very dry reading indeed. The Conway Hall itself is quite a dated venue and was built in 1929. Above the stage area in the main hall was the saying, “To Thine Own Self Be True” and never truer words from a humanist perspective. Shakespeare has always been inspiring to me personally, and I love his work, so to see him quoted in such a way really set the scene for me.
I hadn’t intended to sit through all the forums because I had this pre-conception that they’d all be very boring accounts. However I was very much mistaken, as I discovered when I went into the campaign forum. Andrew Copson, led the discussion and it was a really passionate presentation about how far we’d come in campaigning against faith schools, and the census question.
The questioning in the forum was very bullish, and forthright. People had no problem standing up and speaking out, giving specific examples where religious privilege was rife in their communities. It was clear that other Humanists at the meeting feel very passionate about equality the environment and there was a very clear sense of personal accountability. There were so many people standing up and saying, “This is what I am doing”, or “Where I live here are the issues”. Equally as positive the BHA were taking up some of the issues raised, to explore them further and offer assistance.
The AGM itself was quite lively, and Hanne Stinson gave a very good account of the activities in the last year. People we not shy about questioning her either, and she was challenged on a number of issues. There was a particular question about the national anthem, and if we should campaign to get it changed, so we had a show of hands to see if members thought this was worth investing any resource in.
One rather grumpy old member wanted to press on and cover the accounts, which was slightly dry, and to be fair they kept it quite short. Many questions were raised, and well responded to around this topic. Hanne is also trying to raise an extra £100,000 for which she has agreed to have the BHA logo tattooed on her shoulder. Depending on how much money is raised depends on how big the tattoo will be. As the collection box came around I almost felt like I was in church, but everyone put some cash in the box as it was passed long.
The final part of the AGM was an address by Poly Toynbee, which was greeted with rapturous applause. Poly was an extremely engaging speaker and I sat and wondered why this wasn’t being videoed for publication. She covered all the issues from Scouts, to Lords reform, and ended by highlighting the very important work done in promoting a humanist lifestyle through ceremonies work.
I even got to meet Poly after the meeting, and it felt a bit like I was meeting a celebrity, but she was relaxed to talk to, and equally as engaging on an individual level. I spoke to other key players in the BHA such as Andrew Copson, and Hanne Stinson, and they were equally glad to chat and hear about not only my work with Berkshire Humanists, but also my personal experiences. What amazed me the most is that people knew my name. Of the thousands of members, they recognised my name from postings in the forum, from facebook, and from my work with the local group.
I came away from the meeting feeling really excited and positive about the BHA and the work they do and am more determined to renew my membership year on year.
Buzz!
Posted by: | CommentsYes, I pre-ordered and got it today, BUZZ! The new and exciting quiz show game for my PS3. So what’s it all about?
You get 4 wireless controllers which have 4 coloured buttons plus a big red BUZZ button. You then get to choose to play by yourself, with a friend, or online using the Playstation Network.
What do I think of it? Bloody excellent! I’ve had one go against Julie and played some other online folk and it is very very funny.
The questions are topical and relevant and you can even create your own quizzes for other people to play. On stage you can select from different characters to represent you, such as an Elvis style bloke, and a Charlie’s Angle style female. It’s all good fun, and yet educational as well.
If you’re playing with family it even has a child friendly mode, to turn off mature content. I’ve been playing it for a while and so far I am loving it!
So if you’re out the Challenge old SilentBob73 to a game.
Write what you eat…
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On Sunday night I had my last bottle of wine for a while. At 800 calories a pop, I cannot achieve my goal of losing weight whilst I guzzle back a couple of bottles of Pinot Grigio every weekend (and occasional week night).
So I have started keeping a food diary again using a similar format to the Fatmanslim one. I think I picked the right time to start because not being at work this week means there are less distractions and I can get my eating habits embedded. However, I am looking forward to the instructor at the gym giving me some grief when I get back. Going forward I will refer to her anonymously as Sarge. Sarge is a pretty good motivator who just lays in on the line, but somehow in a nice way. I must be a pretty easy client, because I know all things I should do and she holds me to account and makes sure I do them. It’s also nice to have a bit of enthusiastic support at the same time.
Anyway… back on topic. I’ve been writing this food diary so I can monitor what I am eating. When you have to write down everything you eat, it really makes you really think about what you’re putting in your mouth. I’ve been scoring my hunger on a scale of 1-10 (taken from the FMS programme), and that way I know I am eating for the right reasons. I’ve seen Paul McKenna use a similar method, when he talks of “Eating consciously”.
Food is the fuel for the body, so I am also being careful to fill up on cleaner fuels rather than poor quality ones. Since I’ve been eating mostly carbs up until this week I thought it was time to throw in some protein, and some fibre, and green stuff. The sad thing is we buy tons of veggies every week in the shopping, nice fresh ones, and by the end of the week have chucked most of it in the bin because it’s gone off and not been used. Even worse, I really do like courgette, asparagus, mange tout, and all the things we buy.
In short, things are going really well so far this week. If I lose a bit of weight then great! Otherwise I am just feeling generally more alert, less tired and not so dependent on caffeine to get me through the day.
