Archive for June, 2007

Jun
26

The Silver Ring Thing

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So, what about this girl (Lydia Playfoot) who is suing her school over the fact she was told not to wear a ring to school. Madness I hear you say? She should follow the school rules relating to dress code. However the magic trump card comes into play. It’s a religious symbol of her virginity. So she’s going to the High Court claiming that her school is discriminating against her. If you want the details here is a link to the BBC News article on their web site.So, standing on my soap box once again, I cry out!  What the heck is the world coming to when a young girl can waste thousands of pounds in tax payer’s money whilst the education authority goes to court and defends against this stupid little girl and her piteous cries of religious discrimination? The school has already said that is permissible for her to wear a cross, in the same way that turbans or other specifically religious items are permitted by other faith groups.

Of course the lovely Lydia isn’t satisfied with that, she must insist on what is essentially a new fad, because she isn’t satisfied to just be a virgin. No, no, no, she must actually wear a ring symbolising that she is a virgin. I have to say, I don’t object to the principle, of waiting until the time is right for her personally and not rushing into having sex at an early age. I think there is far too much pressure in our society to have sex at a young age. However I think much of that comes from making things taboo.

We should give children the information, and make them understand the consequences of their actions in relation to sex.  I’m not sure what conclusion I’d like to make about this.

She obviously has the right to express herself freely, but she must have known the rules about this.  I think what outrages me the most is the waste of money going to court over it, and I hold her and her family entirely accountable.  A school is a place of education, not to engage in proselytization. If she can keep it in her pants, perhaps she can keep her religion in her church.

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Jun
18

I’m an iPod Addict

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I just recently purchased an iPod for myself, and I think its one of the best music and video players I’ve seen. I tried a few different music players, but this one is the best one to date.

Why is it so great?  Well firstly it has a massive 80Gb storage capacity.  So I’ve transferred my whole music collection to it and still have a load of space free still.

iTunes also has the option of buying music videos, albums and audiobooks. I particularly like the audio book option as it is always interesting to hear a book as spoken by the author.
For example, having read The God Delusion, I’m now listening to the same title as an audio book.  The strange things that I’ve found Dawkins emphasising different parts of the text that I’d passed of a trivial comments.

As for the music there is a massive selection of stuff that you can listen to, and the sound quality is truly crystal clear.

I did have to restrain myself from buying the additional options of the Bose speaker system and noise cancelling headphones.  This little package would have cost me as much as the iPod again.

I warn you now, that the iTunes store has a very simple one click purchase option which I find quite compelling.  So you need to be restrained, or like me you’ll quickly run up a big bill.  To be fair there was one feature I did like very much.  If you purchase a single track, but later decide you want the album, iTunes cleverly recognises you’ve got a track from the same album and recalculates the fee.  So you only pay the difference don’t pay for the same track twice.

So, I really love my iPod and I use it loads. Its great for workouts, in the car, or watching PMQ’s podcast in my lunch break.
 

 

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Jun
13

Harriet Harman for Deputy Leader

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I read an interesting article today that one of my friends passed to me from the Guardian Unlimited. For those of my readers who aren’t interested in my humanist agenda, please feel free to change channel now. The article titled “Got to have faith?” immediately drew my attention as Labour’s deputy leadership candidates were answering questions posed by the Labour Humanist group on the role of religion in our society.

I would like to note at this point I don’t generally consider myself a labour supporter, although I occasionally agree with some of their policies.

Having also found the details relating to this on the Labour Humanists web page I read the answers to some serious issues from all the candidates. Harriet Harman shone through, sharing my values and principles almost verbatim.  I was so enamoured with her responses I even wrote her an email wishing her all the best of luck in the deputy leadership contests. One answer she gave, made me beam with delight, just knowing that not all politicians are muppets. I quote: “I voted for a fully elected House of Lords, and have always voted for the most democratic formulation offered to Parliament. A 100% elected House of Lords removes unquestionable right from all positions in Parliament – religious or otherwise”. 

Correct answer! Then for most of the other questions she asked, around equality issues such as gay adoption, religious worship in schools etc, she answers. “I have long been a campaigner for equality and a campaigner against discrimination because you cannot be a little bit against discrimination you are either fighting against it or accepting it”. 
This is as important in terms of religious beliefs as it is in terms of gender, race, age and disability which we are used to talking about. 

We should be tolerant of individuals and groups rights to their own beliefs, but there is no place for that in any of our public services.
We should not condemn religious beliefs through the state that is absolute but we should not allow religious beliefs to condemn others through instruments of the state, through schools, through vital local services and through Parliament: as the Labour Humanist Group rightly raises.
And in making policy, the views of religious groups must be taken into account but not to override the views of others.

Faith schools should only be brought into the state system where there is a particular need, and where they unite communities rather than divide.

The focus for our schools should be standards, not structures. I think what people want is a good local school for all children in their neighbourhood. The choice agenda arose when the Tories left state schools in such disrepair that people wanted to choose to get away from the local failing schools, and faith schools are part of that choice.

But we need to reverse the trend of allowing education to divide the community cohesive communities exist where there is religious (and non-religious) tolerance fostered from understanding and shared experienced.

I’ve no clue as to Harriet Harman’s views on religion.  She may be religious, she may be humanistic.  However her aims for a fair and just society resonated perfectly with my own. So, best wishes to Harriet Harman, on these issues I applaud your positive and rational position. There is much to be said for the other candidates, but I’ll leave that to those who might agree with their opinions. In particular that view of Hilary Benn, who seems to think discrimination is fine, on the grounds of “Tradition”, such as with faith schools. Commenting on this would reduce me to the level of grumpy old man. 

I include the link http://www.labourhumanists.org.uk for completeness.  That way you can read the answers of the labour deputy leadership candidates for yourselves.

 

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Jun
10

Why do I call myself humanist?

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A couple of people who’ve read my profile (and blog) wonder why I call myself a humanist, and so openly.  Well the reason is I find it a more positive description of my beliefs and values.

I could easily say, I’m an atheist, or a secularist, or even non-religious. I feel its important to describe myself in a way that doesn’t judge someone elses way of life or values.  I’d rather say what I am, than what I am not.

I suppose to someone who isn’t familiar with the term, it sounds like something from the 70’s, associated with hippies and the like.  To be honest all sorts of people consider themselves humanists, and it far predates the 1970’s.  Just have a read on Wikipedia.

When I talk about being humanist I’m talking about living my life in a positive way, helping people, contributing to society and taking responsibility for my choices and actions.

Humanism isn’t a religion, and I don’t worship the fairies at the bottom of the garden, or Zogg the mighty from Garzax 7.  There is no ritual, no doctrine, and no scripture.  I suppose some people do take issues with my values is when I express the desire to be free from religion. 

Let me clear this up, because I’m a live and let live kind of guy.  I have no problem with religion, and I would even die to defend someones right to believe what they want. Being a pacifist I’m not going to kill anyone for you though. All I ask is to be afforded the same right, which is to not have religion influence my chosen way of life.

As I humanist I can work with people of religion when I agree their aims, e.g. curing cancer, saving the rainforests, helping people with HIV.  However, if I disagree with religions aims, then expect open criticism too.

So, I’m a happy humanist.

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Jun
05

Ministers proposing Britain Day

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A new national day to celebrate British values is being proposed by two senior government ministers in the news today.

Whilst I don’t always agree with government policy, I do agree with this idea. Why do we need a Britain day?  What’s wrong with St George’s day, St Patrick’s day, St Andrew’s day and St David’s day?  My argument against those celebrations is they are a celebration of Roman Catholic saints. Therefore they are exclusively religious holidays.  When I tell people I don’t care about St George’s day, but that I am a proud Englishman they’re very often confused. 

I think a Britain day would provide the opportunity for all British people, whether Scottish, Welsh, English, or Northern Irish, regardless of their beliefs/religion to celebrate the accomplishments of our nation.  So I see this as a fully inclusive day for everyone.

I think the idea about promoting the values of the law-abiding majority is excellent, and the idea of bringing communities together is unquestionably noble. In my street I have some really good neighbours, and they all get along well.  We’re a mix of all sorts of belief systems. However we all care about the place where we live, and we all share common values.

This Britain day will also allow British people to take back their flag from the extremists like the National Front and BNP who have taken it made it something to be ashamed of because of the association with racism.

So I offer my support to Ruth Kelly and Liam Byrne, with one provision. Make sure the bank holiday is the warm weather, not when its cold. 

 

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Jun
04

Chessington World of Adventures

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Michael & Rachael at ChessingtonAfter starting my blog on a somewhat sombre note I wanted to take a step back and talk about our family day out last week at Chessington World of Adventures. For those who don’t know (or live in the outer reaches of the galaxy) Chessington World of Adventures is a park run by Tussuads, the same company that do all those freaky wax statues of celebs.

I have to be honest we weren’t expecting to have all that much fun as the BBC were predicting rain on and off for most of the day. Thankfully, their weather reporting as accurate as my aim when going to the toilet in the dark and we ended up with about 22 degrees and sunshine all day.

We had a discussion about what to do first, and ended up just starting with some warm up rides, like the Berry Bouncers. An interesting contraption that you sit in, and it bounces the person up and down and varying heights. From a previous trip we knew this one was not for grown ups, so Rachael went on her own. The biggest problem with this ride for adults is two-fold:

  • If you a woman with large boobs (as Julie is), the safety bar has a problem coming over your chest.
  • If you’re tall like me, you need to duck sideways to get under the safety bar in the first place.

We witnessed this very problem with a woman who’d obviously never been on this ride before and therefore was having equal problems with the boobs issue.

chessington2-masterAfter the warm-up rides were done we moved on and decided to see some animals. After all when I was a child, Chessington World of Adventures was actually called Chessington Zoo. They don’t have masses of animals but the Darwinian in me wanted to go see my monkey cousins. Unfortunately the larger primates had been moved to Chester zoo, however we did get to into an enclosure where we interacted with squirrel monkeys. They’re small little critters, with greyish and yellow fur. I managed to get a close up of one as it hung onto a nearby plant. Its face is quite cuddly and he had no problem in posing for his national geographic close-up picture. Luckily these aren’t the sort of monkeys that sit and throw their own excrement at you after having sniffed it, otherwise we’d have been in real trouble.

The other area which you should see if you ever go to CWOE is the Sea lions. They’re cool too and quite funny to watch. They have shows with the Sea lions although I’ve never seen it myself. If you get to the park just before it opens you can watch them have their breakfast.

Moving around the park we went through the various zones, like The Forbidden Kingdom, and The Land of the Dragons.  I won’t go into the details of each area, but I liked a couple of rides quite a lot. The Vampire was fantastic! You basically hang from this rail in a seat with your feet dangling below. Its something like a ski lift, apart from the fact it goes really fast, and swings out all over the place.

I also did well at Tomb Blaster, which is basically like a ghost train, but you shoot the monsters to score points with a laser gun. I think my final score was in the 14,000 range.  We did a load of other rides, most of which didn’t compare to the excitement of the vampire. The Black Buccaneer did make me feel a bit dizzy, and I personally thought Bubble works was a yawn. Dragon Falls was a close second to the vampire, but not as good as the log flume at Thorpe Park.

We stayed until about 5pm and headed home. It certainly managed to tire the kids out, and we had a pretty good day all around.

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Jun
03

What Happens When I Die?

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This topic is one that came to mind with me when I read an essay on RichardDawkins.net about a woman who lost her husband in a tragic accident.

What saddened me about her story the most was that they were an atheist family, and without being granted leave to do so, a catholic priest gave her husband the last rites. Having read how this woman was further traumatised by this clear violation of her husband’s right to be free from religion, it made me wonder. What do I want to happen when I die?   

In one sense, I don’t really care one way or the other, because I’ll be dead. On the other hand, I do want my family to have the chance to come together and remember me, and my achievements. Not so they’ll feel sad, but hopefully so they will be inspired to make the most of their life.

If I think carefully about how I could achieve this, I’d have to ask myself what I cared for most in life.  The answer is relatively simple, because I love the world and am passionate about making it a happy place to be for myself and everyone else. So here are my pre-requisites for my death ritual.   

Before you do anything, I am a registered organ donor. So whatever tissues or body parts that are of benefit to another living human being are up for grabs, no question about it.  If for any reason my organs are useless, then donate my body to medical science so that others can learn how to be doctors.

The “ritual” has to do minimal damage to the Earth, so don’t soak my body in nasty chemicals, and then bury me in the ground.   

Don’t spend a load of money on the coffin and flowers.  Do something useful with the money that benefits the living.

Don’t have a big ceremony around the disposal of my body as this is a merely administrative exercise. After all I’m just a dead lump of flesh at this point. If you really feel you must do something, get a humanist celebrant to lead the ceremony, so at least it is in keeping with my humanist way of life.  

Definitely don’t do anything religious.  I’ve spent my life trying to escape the lunacy of the faithful, so why would I want some crazy person talking a load of fairy stories talking over my dead body.  Those who find comfort in religion can do their own thing privately if that helps them.

I think I’d like to know that when I am dead, my friends and family will hold a celebration in my memory. Not some morbid drab affair, but something that is lively, fun and completely irreverent. I imagine as the event winds down, probably late in the evening these celebrants will sit around talking about me, both the good and the bad. 

So that is that. I’m not sure what I’ll leave behind as my legacy to the world. However, I do know that when my time is up on this tiny little ball of dust in the endless reaches of space, I’d like to be remembered for the rational and compassionate human being that I am.

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